r8169: disable default rx interrupt coalescing on RTL8168

It was reported that re-introducing ASPM, in combination with RX
interrupt coalescing, results in significantly increased packet
latency, see [0]. Disabling ASPM or RX interrupt coalescing fixes
the issue. Therefore change the driver's default to disable RX
interrupt coalescing. Users still have the option to enable RX
coalescing via ethtool.

[0] https://bugs.debian.org/cgi-bin/bugreport.cgi?bug=925496



Fixes: a99790bf ("r8169: Reinstate ASPM Support")
Reported-by: Mike Crowe <mac@mcrowe.com>
Signed-off-by: Heiner Kallweit <hkallweit1@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>