bdi: Make wb->bdi a proper reference

Make wb->bdi a proper refcounted reference to bdi for all bdi_writeback
structures except for the one embedded inside struct backing_dev_info.
That will allow us to simplify bdi unregistration.

Acked-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>