IB/hfi1: Add interlock between TID RDMA WRITE and other requests

This locking mechanism is designed to provent vavious memory corruption
scenarios from occurring when requests are pipelined, especially when
RDMA WRITE requests are interleaved with TID RDMA READ requests:
1. READ-AFTER-READ;
2. READ-AFTER-WRITE;
3. WRITE-AFTER-READ;
4. WRITE-AFTER-WRITE.
When memory corruption is likely, a request will be held back until
previous requests have been completed.

Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mitko Haralanov <mitko.haralanov@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Kaike Wan <kaike.wan@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>