tcp/dccp: add inet_csk_reqsk_queue_drop_and_put() helper

Let's reduce the confusion about inet_csk_reqsk_queue_drop() :
In many cases we also need to release reference on request socket,
so add a helper to do this, reducing code size and complexity.

Fixes: 4bdc3d66 ("tcp/dccp: fix behavior of stale SYN_RECV request sockets")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>